Archive for July, 2013

Talk to Tippy

Posted on: July 31st, 2013 by Madison Lake No Comments


Talk to Tippy for outrageously honest advice.  Call it the second opinion we all wish we had.  Unabashedley candid and insightful – trust Tippy for guidance with dating, relationship or sexual conundrums.  Yes, you can Talk to Tippy!


Dear Tippy,

When you’re in a relationship, how often do you masturbate? I’m just thinking I might be overdoing it.



Pete’s Package


Dear Mr. Package,

(I assume this is your penis talking, because no one could be that stupid.   And, only a penis would ask that question, and only out of self preservation.  The poor thing.)

How long is a jail sentence?  How far can a bird fly?  How many shots of tequila can Tippy take before she tips?  All questions with unknown answers.   So here’s the Cliff Notes for your package.  (does he read or just spit?)  :

New healthy relationship –  nice to fantasize about her.  Let her in on it.  Have at it.

Old healthy relationship – same, but make sure she’s getting equal time.

FYI-No relationship – til you go blind.

Good luck,




Dear Tippy,

I have a cuckold fetish. For those of you who don’t know, it’s when you are sexually aroused by watching your female SO being fucked by another guy. It gets a little more complicated, but that’s generally what it is. Usually the girl goes and fucks a guy and the guy allows it.  We haven’t acted on it, but the more I think about it, the more I know I would like it.  Of course, I’m nervous that the whole thing could go south.  I’d just like your opinion on it please.


Terrified Terry

Dear Ter,

Thanks dearly for your letter!  I will devote our whole next weeks column to fetishes.  In the meantime, you two don’t have to actually act on it (and I’d make it clear you might not be comfortable with it just so as to prevent a misunderstanding), but keeping it in the realm of fantasy and dirty talk would allow you to explore your desires in a way that can still protect your feelings.  And the talk will get very very hawt.

Start with that.  See where each others boundaries are.  Report back.  And we’ll open up the whole delicious fetish thang, next week.

Til then,

Dream big, Cats and Kittens!








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Having It All

Posted on: July 30th, 2013 by Madison Lake No Comments

This could be called The Endless Summer. Between writing and blogging, Tweeting and Linking, I’d say I’m getting enough outdoor patio time & sunshine to last me a good long while. Friends, events, and music abound in my world at the moment. It’s like one giant festival, as summer should be.

Despite the plentiful alms of the season, there is one thing missing in my life. Love.

At this age and stage I’m sadly still trying to figure out how (and why) love eludes me. It’s not that I haven’t tried, but there is that fine line of ‘trying too hard‘. I don’t do that. I don’t do anything except be me and go about my business. I guess what I’m saying is my bar pick-up days are over but I’m not. So what gives? How does a single woman meet good men?

Otherwise I could say that I have it all.


Music Monday

Posted on: July 29th, 2013 by Madison Lake No Comments

The start of another week. Here we go…

Posted on: July 26th, 2013 by Madison Lake No Comments


Rihanna wants to be the only girl in the world

Enjoying being single

Younger men loving older women

Royal babies with interesting ancestors

History of Sex, Part 74

Posted on: July 25th, 2013 by Madison Lake No Comments

Welcome to the world, Prince George Alexander Louis!  While most are focusing on his royal heritage, we can’t forget that he’s a quarter Spencer and that family has been around in England a very long time.  One of his most famous Spencer was the fascinating Georgiana, Duchess of Devonshire.

Georgiana was Princess Diana’s great-great-great-great aunt and they shared a lot of similarities.  Georgiana married the Duke of Devonshire, the most senior non-royal in the country, when she was only 17.  Thanks to this very high position in society, she immediately became a fashion icon.  Gainsborough and Reynolds painted her several times each and she was responsible for the early 19th century feather-in-the-headdress trend that lasted for years.

Georgiana also liked to dabble in politics and literature.  She was the first woman to campaign on the platforms (literal platforms back then) and she caused a scandal when she traded votes for kisses.  Her home salon was famous for all the political deals made there.  She was also famous for her gambling.  When she died, she was in debt for what would now be about 3 million pounds ($5 million).

The marriage between the Duke and Duchess of Devonshire was pretty much a failure.  The biggest problem was that it took nearly 15 years for a male heir to come around and that caused a lot of stress.  Georgiana’s husband started an affair with her best friend, Lady Elizabeth Foster, and the three of them lived together for nearly 25 years.  Georgiana herself was no saint and in addition to her three children with the Duke, she had an illegitimate daughter with another aristocrat.