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When you’re in a relationship, how often do you masturbate? I’m just thinking I might be overdoing it.
Dear Mr. Package,
(I assume this is your penis talking, because no one could be that stupid. And, only a penis would ask that question, and only out of self preservation. The poor thing.)
How long is a jail sentence? How far can a bird fly? How many shots of tequila can Tippy take before she tips? All questions with unknown answers. So here’s the Cliff Notes for your package. (does he read or just spit?) :
New healthy relationship – nice to fantasize about her. Let her in on it. Have at it.
Old healthy relationship – same, but make sure she’s getting equal time.
FYI-No relationship – til you go blind.
I have a cuckold fetish. For those of you who don’t know, it’s when you are sexually aroused by watching your female SO being fucked by another guy. It gets a little more complicated, but that’s generally what it is. Usually the girl goes and fucks a guy and the guy allows it. We haven’t acted on it, but the more I think about it, the more I know I would like it. Of course, I’m nervous that the whole thing could go south. I’d just like your opinion on it please.
Thanks dearly for your letter! I will devote our whole next weeks column to fetishes. In the meantime, you two don’t have to actually act on it (and I’d make it clear you might not be comfortable with it just so as to prevent a misunderstanding), but keeping it in the realm of fantasy and dirty talk would allow you to explore your desires in a way that can still protect your feelings. And the talk will get very very hawt.
Start with that. See where each others boundaries are. Report back. And we’ll open up the whole delicious fetish thang, next week.
Dream big, Cats and Kittens!
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