Talk to Tippy

Posted on: February 5th, 2014 by Madison Lake No Comments


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Dear Tippy,

I’m in my early 40s and for most of my life I have been a completely straight male with absolutely no temptation to do anything with a guy. I kissed a guy when I was like 15 and that was enough curiosity for me for the next 25 years 🙂 Unfortunately, in the last year or 2 I’ve been watching a lot of porn of guys with really big cocks and petite-type girls and I really love it. I have begun to think about going down on a really big cock myself and even posted here about it many months ago. My concern is that I don’t really feel gay. I’m not really attracted to guys. But I would like to see once in my life what it was like to have a big cock in my mouth. But I’m worried about how I would feel afterwards about myself, my self-esteem, etc. I’m not worried that I will really like it and want it a lot. I guess that would be a good outcome 🙂

Happy to have your opinion.


Straight Stu


Dear Straight-ish

Well it might just mean that you have an oral fixation rather than an attraction to men or a lean toward being homosexual.  I like to call it heteroflexible.  As the world changes and becomes smaller and information flows more easily, we find that what we used to know to be true, may just not be so, and we now know what the rest of the world is doing and thinking.  Safe experimentation is always an exciting avenue.  I would start to send messages out into the world via panel discussions or blogs and use a pseudonym if you like.  And when you engage in an encounter, just take it very slowly.  Trust your spidey senses and take it only as far as you feel comfortable.  Many gay men are happy to have you experiment slowly and satisfactorily as they only want each and every man to make certain he is playing on the right team.  How this will make you feel after is anyones guess.  It doesn’t have to mean your life is going to change.  It could just be an experiment.  Or it could open the door to a whole new realm for you.  Go for it.  You’ve thought enough about it to send me a note, so it’s worth looking in to.

As with most things in our world, there are more and more grey areas and hopefully soon enough, anything that doesn’t hurt anyone will be allowed, accepted and maybe even legal.



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