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Talk to Tippy

Posted on: August 20th, 2014 by Madison Lake No Comments

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Tippy has been on hiatus.

Tippy doesn’t know if she should continue with her blog.

She’s tired and wonders if anybody listens.

Should she stay or should she go?

TALK TO TIPPY. Leave your comment here.

 

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Talk to Tippy

Posted on: July 16th, 2014 by Madison Lake No Comments

Talk to Tippy for outrageously honest advice. Call it the second opinion we all wish we had. Unabashed and candid and insightful – trust Tippy for guidance with dating, relationship or sexual conundrums. Yes, you can Talk to Tippy!

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Dear Tippy,

I have a new friend who had been in a Mormon marriage since she was fifteen years old. She’s now thirty five and has five children. She knows no other life than the Mormon way but recently, and at her begging for help, I assisted her and her children to run away. They are (all) living with me until we can find her a job and an apartment and get her children in school. It’s a much bigger job than either of us thought. Of course we were just running with our emotions and now it’s for real. The other thing is, my brother has been coming over to help. At first it was curiosity, but now they are really hitting it off. I feel a bit left out and the whole things is feeling complicated. I’m not sure what to do.

Confused

Dear Confused, That was a difficult decision for you to make to get involved in the first place. She has made a huge decision, however, I understand her needs. Try to slow things down and remind her that there is a lot to be done. She has not seen the ‘real world’ in quite some time. Be the friend you are to her and guide her through these rough waters. I’m sure she will be grateful. And if your brother is a good guy, what’s the harm? Good luck,

Tippy

 

Dear Tippy, My wife is sleeping with my best friend. I just know it. It pisses me off. I want to knock him around for doing that to me. He crossed a line that we were never going to cross and he did it. We’ve been buddies since grade school.

Pissed

Dear Pissed, Calm down. First of all, do you know for certain this is happening? It’s one thing to be suspicious but it’s another to accuse without proof. Also, and I hate to remind you, it takes two. Both of them have overstepped boundaries, not just your best friend. The only option for you is to confront them – both. Try to find another friend to be there to support you. Don’t lose your temper. It’s important to find out the truth but the truth will hurt, and I guarantee that anger will not dull the pain.

Tippy

 

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Talk to Tippy

Posted on: July 9th, 2014 by Madison Lake No Comments

Talk to Tippy for outrageously honest advice. Call it the second opinion we all wish we had. Unabashed and candid and insightful – trust Tippy for guidance with dating, relationship or sexual conundrums. Yes, you can Talk to Tippy!

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Dear Tippy,

My husband and I are swingers. Recently we went to our neighbors house party and were surprised when at the end of the evening everybody picked house keys from a basket by the front door (just like back in the sixties!) and went home with a new partner. Interestingly it was our neighbors and hosts who we switched with. It was fun, I admit, but for me that was that, it ended there. However, my husband is still seeing my neighbor Beth (different name) and has recently told me he is falling in love with her! I’m not sure what to do. I never expected this. We’ve been married for thirteen years and have always ‘played’ but this has made me realize I love him too much to lose him.

Swung Too Far

 

Dear Swung and Flung,

I’m not sure what advice to give you. Swingers swing, Players play. It’s the name of the game. You knew that from the start and you both partook. Basically there are no guarantees in any relationship but Swingers do tempt fate – and each other. Sure, it can be fun and exciting, but I think in most cases this is how it ends. I guess you’ll have to have a long talk with yourself and your hubby about how you see your future. Best ‘o luck.

 

Dear Tippy,

My friend follows your column religiously and told me you once wrote about delicious foods to spice up your love life. Is there any way you can repost that for me? I’m in desperate need of some spicing, asap. Btw, my friend loves your column. Thanks,

Desperada

 

Dear Des,

Here you go…Enjoy. And tell your friend thank you for her loyalty.

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Posted on: July 2nd, 2014 by Madison Lake No Comments

Talk to Tippy for outrageously honest advice. Call it the second opinion we all wish we had. Unabashed and candid and insightful – trust Tippy for guidance with dating, relationship or sexual conundrums. Yes, you can Talk to Tippy!

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Dear Tippy,

I’ve lost my sex drive. I’m only in my mid forties so what’s wrong with me? I’m freaking out. I’ve always had such a healthy sex life and suddenly it’s all come to a standstill. I just don’t feel it anymore. My girlfriend is getting fed up with me. I can tell. What should I do?

Limp

 

Dear Limp,

Sometimes this happens – to the best of us. The main thing is to relax and don’t focus on the ‘can’t’ or it will likely get worse. Take a break because for some reason your body is asking you to. Talk to your girlfriend about it. Honesty is the best policy. She’ll understand and stand by you, if she’s worthy. You should also try to experiment together sexually. Spice things up and see if that triggers your arousal. The main thing is not to panic or think too much about it. If it persists, go and see your doc or a sex therapist. There is help if you can’t find a solution on your own. Good luck.

 

Dear Tippy,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years. We are solid, or at least that’s what I thought. But lately he’s really been getting awkwardly close to my best friend. It happens she spends a lot of time with us because we all get along well, but I’m really uncomfortable with the level of flirting they are both doing. What should I do?

Third Wheel

 

Dear Wheely,

For starters, you are not the third wheel. You got there first, remember? You had better have a heart to heart with your girlfriend as well as your boyfriend – separately. Find out what’s going on and tell them how you feel. Get to the bottom of it. By the way, let your girlfriend know there are plenty of other fish in the sea so she should drop her line somewhere else.

 

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Posted on: June 25th, 2014 by Madison Lake No Comments

Talk to Tippy for outrageously honest advice. Call it the second opinion we all wish we had. Unabashed and candid and insightful – trust Tippy for guidance with dating, relationship or sexual conundrums. Yes, you can Talk to Tippy!

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Dear Tippy,

I’m in love with my high school sweetheart. I kid you not. We reconnected at our 30 year reunion a month ago and we’ve been in touch by email ever since. She has to be the nicest girl I’ve ever met. Was then and is now. She has a couple of kids and wants more, which suits me just fine. She’s just trying to figure out the husband thing. I know that sounds bad but we’re in love.

Love struck

 

Dear Struck,

First of all, you’re not in high school anymore, and the person who may have been a girl then is a woman now, so call her one. Secondly, you may feel like you’re in love (after one month) but there’s a lot at stake – a marriage, the husband thing, children. I think it’s time to grow up.

 

Dear Tippy,

What do you think about wife swapping?

Curious

 

Dear George,

The same I feel about husband or boyfriend swapping. Not much. But whatever floats your boat.

 

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